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michaeldavidjay
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Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2010 11:22 am Post subject: |
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there are religions that do not take converts, but only people who were born into the religion. Others, such as some Jewish and some Christian groups do so rarely they are not quite sure what to do when new people come in.
Proselyte = New comer. Communities either welcome new comers, or they reject them. Some communities more or less actively recruit.
By the way, I agree that its not a bad thing to 'invite'. I feel its better to assume someone can be part of the community than to become an exclusive and unwelcoming community that expresses a smug superiority. _________________ Do Friends speak to today's condition, or are we only a historical footnote? |
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Anthony
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Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2010 4:18 pm Post subject: |
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When I refer to proselytising I am not thinking of someone discussing or debating their religion with someone who asks (this would be quite acceptable and expected) but someone, in the manner of Christians, who actively seeks converts on the streets, door to door, posters, leaflets or someone who peppers their conversation with religious affirmations. As far as I have seen they are just content to worship and live their lives according to Islam and leave the rest of us alone, unless we upset them or show a respectful interest.
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Pulpculture

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Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2010 4:31 pm Post subject: |
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| What I don't understand is why, when I live amongst a large and widespread Islamic community, I have never once witnessed any proselytising? When I refer to proselytising I am not thinking of someone discussing or debating their religion with someone who asks (this would be quite acceptable and expected) but someone, in the manner of Christians, who actively seeks converts on the streets, door to door, posters, leaflets or someone who peppers their conversation with religious affirmations. As far as I have seen they are just content to worship and live their lives according to Islam and leave the rest of us alone, unless we upset them or show a respectful interest. |
That's my experience also. I have friends who have never tried to "tempt" me in. I have had work colleagues who have never tried to convert me. I have shopped and walked past hundreds of thousands of Muslims and not a single one has ever tried. Ever.
Re the comment "exclusive and unwelcoming community that expresses a smug superiority" - the only time I have ever encountered this is when I lived in Israel but that's a different story. _________________ .
I said don't forget Burma! |
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michaeldavidjay
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Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2010 5:50 pm Post subject: |
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smug superior, and unwelcoming can also describe some Quaker meetings. _________________ Do Friends speak to today's condition, or are we only a historical footnote? |
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Pulpculture

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Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 2:20 am Post subject: |
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| michaeldavidjay wrote: |
| smug superior, and unwelcoming can also describe some Quaker meetings. |
Change them from within  _________________ .
I said don't forget Burma! |
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Sylvanus

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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 5:45 am Post subject: |
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| Anthony wrote: |
| What I don't understand is why, when I live amongst a large and widespread Islamic community, I have never once witnessed any proselytising? When I refer to proselytising I am not thinking of someone discussing or debating their religion with someone who asks (this would be quite acceptable and expected) but someone, in the manner of Christians, who actively seeks converts on the streets, door to door, posters, leaflets or someone who peppers their conversation with religious affirmations. As far as I have seen they are just content to worship and live their lives according to Islam and leave the rest of us alone, unless we upset them or show a respectful interest. |
I find it very suprising that you once lived in a large Islamist community and did not notice any Islamist proselytising. As other have mentioned here, conversion has been a cornerstone of Islamist religion from its very beginings and if 'discussion' and persuasion did'nt work, making life much more diffficult for the non-Islamist population [as in the extra Dhimmi tax] or in many other cases the threat of death was also used to 'encourage' people under Islamic rule to convert. Here in East London one cannot do ones shopping anymore without having some Islamist leaflet thrust into ones hand or someone approaching you to try and convince you that Islam is the true religion. However on balance we now also have many West African christians doing the same thing and of course most everyone has had a JW knocking on ones door. |
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Anthony
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 6:04 am Post subject: |
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I have never witnessed any Muslim proselyzing, ever.
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Pulpculture

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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 7:00 am Post subject: |
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To summarise then - some of us live amongst Muslims and find it a real problem whilst others here have never had a single issue with it and couldn't care less. Some of us find Muslims asking us to join their religion a real problem and are uncomfortable with it whilst others here have never encountered this (many of us not even once.)
Anyone mind if I get back to the original subject matter? - call me old fashioned and all that
Have you ever wondered what goes through the mind of an Iraqi insurgent? Why would someone who has led a normal life up until that point wake up and want to risk their own life to rid their community of US or British troops? Big decision to make (well it would be for me and most people.)
Have a watch of this whilst it's still on iPlayer for the next 30 days..........
BBC
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michaeldavidjay
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 7:23 am Post subject: |
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I've never experienced a 'problem'. I have not seen anyone claim to have experienced a problem. Any Dawah I've personally experienced has been non-offensive. I have heard... um... crazy Islamic preaching which was abusive and offensive -- but, that is hardly mainstream... and I live in a place where people are free be jerks in public, so we learn not to be overly offended when they exercise that freedom.
I find your phrase 'some people have had a problem' rather curious.... and, actually a little offensive. Who claimed to have a problem???
I also think its strange that a couple people are accusing entire Muslim communities of neglecting a named religious duty. I wonder what it is about the wider community that causes them to do so. _________________ Do Friends speak to today's condition, or are we only a historical footnote? |
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Anthony
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 4:44 pm Post subject: |
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I also think its strange that a couple people are accusing entire Muslim communities of neglecting a named religious duty. I wonder what it is about the wider community that causes them to do so. |
Michael, could you please clarify what you mean by this? |
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michaeldavidjay
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 6:49 pm Post subject: |
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Muslims have a religious duty to invite people to Islam called Dawah. Your suggestion that they do not do this is a suggestion that the whole community is failing in its religious duty -- that is quite an accusation.
I cannot imagine a reason WITHIN the Muslim community that would cause them to neglect this duty... so I guess the reason is hostility in the outside community.
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On the other hand, there is a movement in Islam encouraging people to practice Dawah politely. Perhaps you only notice if it strikes you as rude? _________________ Do Friends speak to today's condition, or are we only a historical footnote? |
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Anthony
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Posted: Fri Oct 1, 2010 4:45 am Post subject: |
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| michaeldavidjay wrote: |
Muslims have a religious duty to invite people to Islam called Dawah. Your suggestion that they do not do this is a suggestion that the whole community is failing in its religious duty -- that is quite an accusation.
I cannot imagine a reason WITHIN the Muslim community that would cause them to neglect this duty... so I guess the reason is hostility in the outside community.
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On the other hand, there is a movement in Islam encouraging people to practice Dawah politely. Perhaps you only notice if it strikes you as rude? |
Michael, Pupculture may have his own thoughts on this accusation; I repeat that I have never witnessed any Muslim proselytising - ever. Your suggestion that the reason our local Muslims do not proselyse is that they may be intimidated by the outside community. This is 'quite an accusation' - that Muslims, who 'have a duty to invite people to Islam called Dawah,' lack the courage to do so, thus, 'the whole community is failing in its religious duty.'
I am receptive of the suggestion that a lack of observation of proselytising Muslims is because they do so 'politely' - I suggest that they do this by being willing to discuss Islam when they are requested to do so and not in an 'offensive' manner. I sincerely hope that this is the case because I personally find Christian proselytising offensive with their loud speakers in the town centre on Saturday mornings, their door to door evangelising and peppering their conversations with God, Jesus and the Devil. I find the lack of obvious Muslim proselytising quite refreshing.
Michael, in more ways than one you misunderstand my feelings on this issue - mainly because I have not revealed how I feel about Muslims or their discreet proselytising. What I have said is that I doubt they proselyse, certainly in the manner of Christians, and that I have never witnessed their proselytising
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michaeldavidjay
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Posted: Fri Oct 1, 2010 8:08 am Post subject: |
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http://www.quaker.org.uk/outreach
Not treated as a duty -- but encouraged. (and, even though 'conversion is not a goal'... um... there is a hope that some new people will go to meeting) For me, this is an attempt at proselytizing.
By the way -- the last time I heard anything like loudspeakers on the street corner, it was a secular event (politics). People are often tempted to say that a political opinion is religious, but bluntly -- that is for political, and not religious reasons. The last religious group I've seen sharing their message loudly and offensively did not accept converts. (people asked, and were turned down)... the group feels they are apocalyptic prophets calling down judgment on a world beyond the chance of salvation.
I guess once or twice, I've seen religious services in a green space (the group of course paid the required fees, and received the proper assembly permit)... but, again this is not what you describe. If people have anything offensive to say -- they put it on the radio, or on rare occasions do a mass mailing.
I suppose you and I live in different worlds. _________________ Do Friends speak to today's condition, or are we only a historical footnote? |
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Anthony
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Posted: Sat Oct 2, 2010 5:11 am Post subject: |
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| michaeldavidjay wrote: |
| Muslims have a religious duty to invite people to Islam called Dawah. |
Michael, I have checked out 'Dawah' and acknowledge that you are quite right in what you say about Muslims having a duty to invite others to understand Islam. I also note that it required politeness and tact to do this, first starting with one's family, friends and neighbours before one is expected outreach into the community. I don't know why such witnessing seems inconsistent over here but at least I have learnt something I didn't know, although still a lot more questions. Thank you. |
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